Hello all,
My very first blog post... My interest in blogging began way back in 2011, when i got married..
But the feeling of happiness, of being loved by someone so deeply, took me off the world of blogging...
Today, I write this post as a proud mother of a baby girl, Aradhana. She is 5 months up, and a darling.
The moment of me becoming an official mother was both sweet and sour. One reason being, losing my mother just a couple of weeks before my daughter was born. She made sure I was hale and healthy throughout my pregnancy and took such great care of me. I remember when she told me to come up with a good news (having a baby) as soon as I got married, like in most Indian families. Once you are married, and let 4-5 months pass by, people whom you never knew existed too, pounce on you with the very same list of questions "So...When is the good news?" , "Any plans of a baby?" , "Getting a bit late isn't it?" etc.
Yes, it happened to me too. I was bugged, really bugged. To top it all, my mother too joined the club. Despite having made my views clear, that I really need some time to becoming a parent because I am not sure if I will be able to handle so soon, my mother had to cling on to me. My mother, however, had a valid reason to be worried about. I am the eldest in the family, but I was born 10 years late. My parents had to struggle a lot to withstand all the sneerings, curses and taunts they got from the "society" (close friends, family members etc... yes, surprising!). She feared that I might end up with the same problem as her. Even though my pregnancy was a planned one, and got conceived as expected, I regret having shouted back at my mother for not understanding me. I wish I had become a mother bit earlier, then my mother would have been here cuddling her grand daughter...
Aradhana, is my mother's comeback... That's how we all look at it. My life has never been so colorful, since she made her entry. Initial days of parenting... yes, a crushing headache, messy all over.. but like it is always told...its WORTH it :)
Go through those sleepless nights, controlling the urges to go to the bathroom, cold teas and coffees, late meals... just for that one little sweet smile you get back. Just for those little eyes to look into yours, those little fingers to caress your face. This sight is worth dying for! :)
Now can't wait for her to grow up and at the same time want her to be that cuddly baby forever... :D
Will be posting more... :) Need your comments... Mothers are welcome to share in some tips and tricks to handle my tiny tot <3
Thank you!!
My very first blog post... My interest in blogging began way back in 2011, when i got married..
But the feeling of happiness, of being loved by someone so deeply, took me off the world of blogging...
Today, I write this post as a proud mother of a baby girl, Aradhana. She is 5 months up, and a darling.
The moment of me becoming an official mother was both sweet and sour. One reason being, losing my mother just a couple of weeks before my daughter was born. She made sure I was hale and healthy throughout my pregnancy and took such great care of me. I remember when she told me to come up with a good news (having a baby) as soon as I got married, like in most Indian families. Once you are married, and let 4-5 months pass by, people whom you never knew existed too, pounce on you with the very same list of questions "So...When is the good news?" , "Any plans of a baby?" , "Getting a bit late isn't it?" etc.
Yes, it happened to me too. I was bugged, really bugged. To top it all, my mother too joined the club. Despite having made my views clear, that I really need some time to becoming a parent because I am not sure if I will be able to handle so soon, my mother had to cling on to me. My mother, however, had a valid reason to be worried about. I am the eldest in the family, but I was born 10 years late. My parents had to struggle a lot to withstand all the sneerings, curses and taunts they got from the "society" (close friends, family members etc... yes, surprising!). She feared that I might end up with the same problem as her. Even though my pregnancy was a planned one, and got conceived as expected, I regret having shouted back at my mother for not understanding me. I wish I had become a mother bit earlier, then my mother would have been here cuddling her grand daughter...
Aradhana, is my mother's comeback... That's how we all look at it. My life has never been so colorful, since she made her entry. Initial days of parenting... yes, a crushing headache, messy all over.. but like it is always told...its WORTH it :)
Go through those sleepless nights, controlling the urges to go to the bathroom, cold teas and coffees, late meals... just for that one little sweet smile you get back. Just for those little eyes to look into yours, those little fingers to caress your face. This sight is worth dying for! :)
Now can't wait for her to grow up and at the same time want her to be that cuddly baby forever... :D
Will be posting more... :) Need your comments... Mothers are welcome to share in some tips and tricks to handle my tiny tot <3
Thank you!!
